Why Some People Claim That NLP Doesn’t Work

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 16-07-2018

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I’ve heard some people say that NLP doesn’t work several times over the years, and that inspired me to write this note. Why do they say that NLP doesn’t work?  How come that it does work for all the rest?  What did the people for whom it didn’t work miss?  Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Breaking Vicious Circles

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 03-01-2018

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We all know too well how hard beginning to build or getting back into good habits can be.  Breaking vicious circles  to get into virtuous ones is the hardest thing for many people, which is why many poor or fat people remain poor or fat, etc. But equally, people who have broken the vicious circles and are now riding the virtuous ones will tell you that the pleasure of them is a thousand times stronger and longer than the best orgasm…  They have broken the vicious circles, which suggests that anyone can. But how?  NLP tells you here.   Read the rest of this entry »

Why Too Many Trainings Aren’t Good for You

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 03-09-2017

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Surely there’s nothing like too much learning.  Learning never stops and we’ll never know everything. So isn’t it the case that the more we learn, the better? Won’t we be better experts in our fields the more courses, trainings, seminars we take? So why aren’t too many trainings good for you?  Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and Self-sabotage

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 03-07-2017

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Why do many people sabotage themselves when they approach the peak of having done so well at something they’ve been improving, developing, building for a while? How can NLP help stop this self-sabotage happening and shift ourselves to a higher ground?  Read the rest of this entry »

Why Keeping the Momentum of the Life Coaching Process Is Important

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 01-01-2017

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Many clients who start life coaching tend to start skipping the weekly sessions after the first two sessions, thus break the momentum of the coaching process up by excuses of other priorities.  Why is it important to discipline oneself to keep the momentum?

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Why Coaching Over 3 – 4 Months Adds More Value Than Coaching Over 4 – 6 Weeks

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 20-11-2016

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Many coaches offer the coaching process of 4 or 6 weeks and then offer their clients the possibility to extend the it.  In the field of executive coaching asking clients to prepay 3-month blocks of coaching sessions is standard practice. And now more and more coaches are jumping on the bandwagon by offering 3-month blocks to their life coaching clients.  Why does this approach add more value than the traditional 4 – 6-week approach?  Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and Relapses

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 20-01-2016

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Why do we relapse just when we’re beginning to do so well?  What is the message in our relapses?  Read the rest of this entry »

February 1 – a Better Time to Start on New Year’s Resolutions?

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 30-01-2015

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Be enriched by reading on if you live in the northern hemisphere, because in the southern one, while enjoying the height of summer, people have absolutely no reason to even dream of issues this article will discuss! The gist of this article also won’t apply to you if you’re a person whose motivation and determination to reach your goal is so strong that nothing will distract you from reaching the goal. But if you are a person whose motivation can always be strengthened, read on – and get some good coaching! Read the rest of this entry »

Grounding Exercises for People With(out) Learning Difficulties

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 08-11-2014

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This entry will help you if you have come across grounding and how useful it is for anyone anywhere in any situation, but still struggle with how to get grounded.   A few ways how are outlined below.  Read the rest of this entry »

Why Teaching NLP in Schools Would Benefit Societies

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 04-06-2014

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The inventor of the idea of sex education being taught from early grades in schools thought that it’d be beneficial to societies in the same way as I’ve been maintaining for years that teaching NLP would.  How?  What payback would governments get in the long term if they implemented this idea?     Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Creating Fulfilling Life

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 28-07-2013

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This is the age of achievement.  Never have more people accomplished more things in more different fields than  these days.  More people are becoming successful at a faster rate than ever in history.  There have never been more opportunities for you to turn your dreams into reality than there are at present times. Despite this fact there’re always plenty of people whose lives are the opposite of fulfilling…  How come?  If it was really so hard to make life fulfilling, how come there’d be so many successful people who know how to make their lives fulfilling?  Here’re the 7 launching pads of this rocket science… Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Preparation

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 24-03-2013

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Prior planning prevents poor performance is the original version of the 5Ps.  I’ll now modify it to prior preparation prevents poor performance.  Almost the same thing, but I’ll expand on the preparation p in this entry.  So be prepared!   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Maximizing Your Effectiveness

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 05-01-2013

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Implement these 2 tips on a regular basis for the rest of your life to keep yourself focused on getting your most important tasks completed on schedule.   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for the Time Inefficient

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 04-09-2012

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You need to stand back on a regular basis and analyze yourself, your life, your usage of time.  You need to become a master of your time rather than a slave to time pressures.    Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for People Who Have Trouble Relaxing

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 04-03-2012

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I’ve met many people who don’t know how to relax due to being stuck in living in the fast lane.  These people live the paradox of wanting to be highly productive all the time to please everyone [at once], yet often achieving the opposite.  That’s partly because regular relaxation is essential for long life and personal effectiveness. Here are 8 techniques for physically relaxing used by the most successful and highest paid people.   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and Being Direct vs. Being Rude

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 07-07-2011

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The case of my friend whose volunteering as a counselor for a charity had recently been halted by her program coordinator for “being too direct with the clients” inspired me to write my view of this topic.  Is being too direct good for your clients – or anyone?   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP Chunking for Memorizing & Remembering

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 20-04-2011

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How does NLP help to improve memory performance?  Psychologist George A. Miller carried out experiments on human processing of information and discovered that the maximum amount of bits of information that people could deal with simultaneously was between 5 and 9 or in other words 7 plus / minus 2.  A bit of information is the amount needed to make a decision between two equally likely alternatives.  For example, the result of tossing a coin will produce one bit of information.   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and Energy

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 20-03-2011

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How are you voting with your energy?  What do you want in your life?  What are your highest values?  Is [for example] peace of mind important to you?  How often do you do what it takes to cultivate your peace of mind?  Or is connection a high value of yours?  How often do you choose to connect with people? Read the rest of this entry »

Is Mainstream Education Here Just to Make People Conform to Society?

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 16-02-2011

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The mainstream education system in many countries exists primarily to give secure comfortable jobs to large numbers of people while giving the appearance of providing a service.  This is just as bad at higher level of education as it is at primary level and this phenomenon is apparent elswhere in the public service, particularly in health and government.  In any group of people engaged in any activity there is a percentage of those who can’t do it at all / properly, or can’t be bothered, another percentage of those who are satisfactory or mediocre, and then the top 10% who are committed and excellent.  Unfortunately the activities of the 90% serve to frustrate the best efforts of the top 10%. Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Jetlag

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 17-01-2011

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How can travelers minimize the effects of jetlag? In at least 4 NLP ways: Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Speech Problems

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 09-01-2011

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Problems with speech were an issue I was once approached with.   And since it inspired me to think of many more people wrecking their brains over a similar dilemma, here I share what I advised this woman. Read the rest of this entry »

Exercises for Sharpening Your Visual Skills

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 18-12-2010

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The following 3 exercises will sharpen your visual and observational skills and improve your memory.  The key is to do them regularly until you feel proficient and automatic at visualisation. Read the rest of this entry »

NLP & Interpreting Dreams

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 24-08-2010

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What do our dreams mean?  How can their content connect with our waking lives? Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Dealing With Negative Experiences

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 11-04-2010

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Every time you remember some situation, your brain will give your memory one of these two structural forms:

  • you see your remembered experience as if you were there and in it, in your body, looking through your eyes, or
  • you see yourself in your experience like on a movie screen, physically separated from your body

The first form is that of being associated into your experience.  The second is that of being dissociated from your experience.  More familiar synonyms for associated and dissociated are subjective and objective. How  can you use these two perspectives to better deal with negative experiences and strengthen your positive ones?    Read the rest of this entry »

Vision Versus Visualisation and NLP

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 09-04-2010

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Vision is not the same as visualization.  The words are similar, but their meanings are different.   And although it may sound surprising, I’ve seen many people confuse these two words and this confusion result in unnecessary halts to people’s education, growth, progress.   So let’s clear these differences.

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Why Do Old Habits Die Hard?

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 31-03-2010

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Why is it hard to stop smoking, lose weight, etc?

For two reasons:

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NLP for Quarrels, Misunderstandings, Communication Problems

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 26-03-2010

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Here are NLP tips for solving daily communication problems: Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and Confusion

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 21-03-2010

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How can you use confusion to your advantage?  How can you work with it and NLP? Read the rest of this entry »

Coaching, Counseling, Therapy, Consulting – Which Is Best for You?

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 08-02-2010

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What are the differences between coaching, counselling therapy, consulting? And how do you know which approach is best for you?

Many a person interchanges the terms coaching and counselling as if they were the same thing.  And even more people are still confused about the subtle but powerful difference between coaching and counselling.  And then there’s therapy, consulting, teaching…. and more. This masterpiece below will get you out of confusion forever.

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