NLP for Breaking Vicious Circles

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 03-01-2018

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We all know too well how hard beginning to build or getting back into good habits can be.  Breaking vicious circles  to get into virtuous ones is the hardest thing for many people, which is why many poor or fat people remain poor or fat, etc. But equally, people who have broken the vicious circles and are now riding the virtuous ones will tell you that the pleasure of them is a thousand times stronger and longer than the best orgasm…  They have broken the vicious circles, which suggests that anyone can. But how?  NLP tells you here.   Read the rest of this entry »

Grounding & Ungrounding Effects of Arts and Learning Difficulties

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 03-11-2017

Since people with learning difficulties are inevitably highly visual and creative, thus often highly artistic, heightened artistic abilities and creativity can be a drawback in the context of literacy, numeracy, and other learning difficulties.  But sometimes the solution rests within the problem, so here’re some grounding and ungrounding effects that arts have on learning difficulties:  Read the rest of this entry »

Why Too Many Trainings Aren’t Good for You

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 03-09-2017

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Surely there’s nothing like too much learning.  Learning never stops and we’ll never know everything. So isn’t it the case that the more we learn, the better? Won’t we be better experts in our fields the more courses, trainings, seminars we take? So why aren’t too many trainings good for you?  Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and Self-sabotage

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 03-07-2017

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Why do many people sabotage themselves when they approach the peak of having done so well at something they’ve been improving, developing, building for a while? How can NLP help stop this self-sabotage happening and shift ourselves to a higher ground?  Read the rest of this entry »

Why Your Family Member or Friend Will Never Be Your Coach

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 02-05-2017

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It’s amazing how many people would immensely benefit from coaching, yet don’t wanna pay for it, because their argument is that they can’t afford it or wouldn’t wanna talk to a stranger about their problems. They think that talking to their family members or friends about their problems will do the job, and perhaps even better, because the family member or friend knows and will understand them.  Here’s why this approach won’t work and coaches have tremendous value in and to the society. Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and Numerology: a Successful Collaboration

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 02-03-2017

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How are NLP and numerology different and complementary to each other?  How can they each and combined help any person understand themself, their strengths, and limitations?  Read the rest of this entry »

Why Keeping the Momentum of the Life Coaching Process Is Important

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 01-01-2017

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Many clients who start life coaching tend to start skipping the weekly sessions after the first two sessions, thus break the momentum of the coaching process up by excuses of other priorities.  Why is it important to discipline oneself to keep the momentum?

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Why Coaching Over 3 – 4 Months Adds More Value Than Coaching Over 4 – 6 Weeks

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 29-09-2016

Many coaches offer the coaching process of 4 or 6 weeks and then offer their clients the possibility to extend the it.  In the field of executive coaching asking clients to prepay 3-month blocks of coaching sessions is standard practice. And now more and more coaches are jumping on the bandwagon by offering 3-month blocks to their life coaching clients.  Why does this approach add more value than the traditional 4 – 6-week approach?  Read the rest of this entry »

NLP, Metaphors, and Health

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 18-07-2016

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Many people say that the older they get, the slower their ailments heal, or the worse their health gets. Many others say that their injuries never fully healed. How do those people encourage and discourage healing without realizing it?   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP, Energy Clearance, and Learning Difficulties

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 14-06-2016

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Why is regular clearing of the energy field vitally important for people with literacy / numeracy related and other learning difficulties?  Read the rest of this entry »

The NLP Energy Clearing Process

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 17-03-2016

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How can you clear your energy field the NLP way?  Why is energy clearance important?  What can it help with?  Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and Relapses

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 20-01-2016

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Why do we relapse just when we’re beginning to do so well?  What is the message in our relapses?  Read the rest of this entry »

NLP Chunking and Negotiation

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 13-11-2015

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I wrote about the usefulness of NLP chunking for memorization and remembering here and for learning difficulties here.  But NLP chunking can be used in any context.  Here’s how it can help in negotiation.
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Do Guarantees for Success of Life Coaching Exist?

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP, UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 16-09-2015

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One person recently having asked me this question inspired me to answer it publicly and add the answer to my site for others’ benefit.  Read the rest of this entry »

Looking for a Life Coach?

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 03-05-2015

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Perhaps you are, which is why you’ve come to this blog post. But then, there’s so much information out there, there’re so many life coaches within Toronto or London UK alone, and there’re so many areas all these life coaches specialize in… so where do you start?  And how’s the service of life coaching administered? Read the rest of this entry »

February 1 – a Better Date for Starting on New Year’s Resolutions?

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 30-01-2015

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Be enriched by reading on if you live in the northern hemisphere, because in the southern one, while enjoying the height of summer, people have absolutely no reason to even dream of issues this article will discuss! The gist of this article also won’t apply to you if you’re a person whose motivation and determination to reach your goal is so strong that nothing will distract you from reaching the goal. But if you are a person whose motivation can always be strengthened, read on – and get some good coaching! Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Mixing Up Words in Speech

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 24-12-2014

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Mixing up words when speaking is many people’s problem.  They look for medical names for this issue on the net, yet find none, because it boils down to a simple phenomenon described in this entry.  Read the rest of this entry »

Grounding Exercises Not Only for People With Learning Difficulties

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 08-11-2014

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This entry will help you if you have come across grounding and how useful it is for anyone anywhere in any situation, but still struggle with how to get grounded.   A few ways how are outlined below.  Read the rest of this entry »

So You Say Psychology Isn’t Important?

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 05-10-2014

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It’s incredible how many times I’ve heard people [especially in the corporate professions such as transport, law, IT, banking, and a few others] tell me that they were worried about people who take a degree in psychology, because psychology was too wishy-washy, uncertain for the prospect of getting secure jobs on the basis of a degree in it, and somewhat not as important as were their professions [of course they’d say that!].  Their core argument was ‘we need lawyers, we need IT almighties, we need transport, we need bankers, but we don’t really need psychologists’.  These same people would also tell me that the number of people who go for a degree in psychology is the highest of all degrees simply because psychology is the easiest degree to get and if one wants a degree for the sake of the paper to give them the passport to a job in any field, a degree in psychology is an obvious choice without needing too much effort.  But then…   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Poor Spelling, Difficult Reading, Slow Math

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 02-09-2014

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Here verbatim is an issue one mother approached me with and which I deem worthy of sharing with all parents facing similar issues.  As you read, you may recognize that you and your child have long been struggling with something similar – and say “Finally!  Here’s what I’ve been looking for for ages!”   Read the rest of this entry »

How Do You Know When You Need to Ground Yourself?

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 01-08-2014

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How do you know when you’re ungrounded and need to get grounded when you’ve never come across grounding before?  Here’re some signs:   Read the rest of this entry »

More on Grounding and Learning Difficulties

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 03-07-2014

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Since I learned that grounding was an essential factor in dealing with learning difficulties, I always teach people how to make it part of their lives.  It’s free of charge and side effects, universally done, totally natural, and inevitable for dealing with any learning difficulties.   Here’s more on how grounding can help regardless of whether you [or someone you know and are thinking of while reading this] have [has] learning difficulties or not.   Read the rest of this entry »

Why Teaching NLP in Schools Would Benefit Societies

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 04-06-2014

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The inventor of the idea of sex education being taught from early grades in schools thought that it’d be beneficial to societies in the same way as I’ve been maintaining for years that teaching NLP would.  How?  What payback would governments get in the long term if they implemented this idea?     Read the rest of this entry »

5 NLP Tips for Legal Professionals With(out) Learning Difficulties

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 27-04-2014

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Can lawyers and legal professionals affected by learning difficulties get help for them without incurring too much cost in time, money, and energy?  If yes, how?   Read the rest of this entry »

Happy – or Crappy New Year?

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 01-01-2014

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Here we are past the doorstep of a new year again, but how many of us have actually become “better people” with the clock’s strike of 12?  Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for People Who Want to Be More Productive and Efficient

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 20-11-2013

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Your mind is one of your most precious assets.  You must be continually working to increase the quality of your thinking.  So how can you make every minute count in your professional development?   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP Chunking for Learning Difficulties

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 30-09-2013

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The NLP principle of chunking information is described here and, as mentioned in that entry, it’s good for your memory.  But NLP and chunking information is also beautifully used and usable in helping people deal with learning difficulties.   How?  Here’s the lowdown:    Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Creating Fulfilling Life

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 28-07-2013

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This is the age of achievement.  Never have more people accomplished more things in more different fields than  these days.  More people are becoming successful at a faster rate than ever in history.  There have never been more opportunities for you to turn your dreams into reality than there are at present times. Despite this fact there’re always plenty of people whose lives are the opposite of fulfilling…  How come?  If it was really so hard to make life fulfilling, how come there’d be so many successful people who know how to make their lives fulfilling?  Here’re the 7 launching pads of this rocket science… Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Dealing With Rejection, Criticism, Disapproval

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 31-05-2013

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A major source of stress in life is the fear of rejection, criticism, or disapproval.   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Preparation

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 24-03-2013

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Prior planning prevents poor performance is the original version of the 5Ps.  I’ll now modify it to prior preparation prevents poor performance.  Almost the same thing, but I’ll expand on the preparation p in this entry.  So be prepared!   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Maximizing Your Effectiveness

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 05-01-2013

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Implement these 2 tips on a regular basis for the rest of your life to keep yourself focused on getting your most important tasks completed on schedule.   Read the rest of this entry »

5 Tips for Un-Learning Difficulties Anywhere

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 04-11-2012

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NLP for the Time Inefficient

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 04-09-2012

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You need to stand back on a regular basis and analyze yourself, your life, your usage of time.  You need to become a master of your time rather than a slave to time pressures.    Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for People Who Don’t Face Problems Well

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 02-07-2012

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If you travel by air, you know that when your plane takes off, the pilot tells all the passengers to stay in their seats with their seatbelts buckled.  At times during the flight the pilot will warn “We expect turbulence for a few moments, so please stay buckled up.”  When you start any new lifestyle, job, business, or transition, you too will experience turbulence.    Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Accumulation

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 03-05-2012

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One of the greatest success principles is the law of accumulation. This law dictates that everything great and worthwhile in human life is an accumulation of thousands of tiny efforts and sacrifices that nobody ever sees or appreciates.  Everything accumulates over time.  You have to put in many tiny efforts that nobody sees / appreciates before you achieve anything worthwhile.  It’s like a snowball.  A snowball starts very small and grows as it adds millions of tiny snowflakes and continues to grow as it gathers momentum.    Read the rest of this entry »

NLP For People Who Have Trouble Relaxing

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 04-03-2012

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I’ve met many people who don’t know how to relax due to being stuck in living in the fast lane.  These people live the paradox of wanting to be highly productive all the time to please everyone [at once], yet often achieving the opposite.  That’s partly because regular relaxation is essential for long life and personal effectiveness. Here are 8 techniques for physically relaxing used by the most successful and highest paid people.   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and Forced Efficiency

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 02-01-2012

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The NLP principle of forced efficiency dictates that there’s never enough time to do everything, but there’s always enough time to do the most important thing.  How does this work?   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and To Do Lists

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 04-12-2011

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Long to do lists are often a challenge for people.  Most people feel demotivated and overwhelmed when they look at a list with more than 10 items on it.  The longer the list is, the more likely we are to focus on the simple tasks we can do the fastest.   We want to start things off quickly, many of us like immediate gratification for their efforts, and it makes the list look shorter.   So we find the easiest tasks to get us going.  We may have the intention to do some more complex tasks later, but invariably get sidetracked.   And by the end of the day the list looks just as daunting as it did at the beginning.  Sounds familiar?  So what’s the cure?   Read the rest of this entry »

3 NLP Tips for Learning in the Classroom

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 15-10-2011

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If you are currently studying in a classroom environment, these 3 tips will help you dramatically improve your learning experience in every lesson!

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NLP for People Who Ask for Help and Don’t Act on It

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 23-09-2011

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How many times have you heard / read this phrase before?  People ask for help, yet when they get it, defer acting on it and are doing themselves disservice.  But why do they?

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Visual Teaching or Visual Learning?

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 11-09-2011

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One of the challenges of teaching is that when the teacher can’t see what a learner is visualizing, there’s nothing for the teacher to mark / evaluate.   Read the rest of this entry »

How You Can Help Stop Poor Literacy / Numeracy

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 30-08-2011

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Poor literacy / numeracy is the number one reason for young people quitting school and the number one block to them being employment ready after leaving school.  This trend is easy to change as more people are understanding how our fabulously talented visual children and adults operate.   Read the rest of this entry »

The Difference Between Visual Teaching and Visual Learning

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 15-08-2011

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Showing someone a picture is visual teaching.  If you tell a tale about a fairy, every person listening to the tale will make different pictures of the fairy.  This is visual learning.  When you’re teaching a fact, such as the shape of Canada, your learners need to see it.  But if you tell them exactly what their fairy should look like, you’re stiffling their creativity.   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP for Financial Professionals in Retail Banking

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 31-07-2011

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If you are or know a financial services representative or a financial advisor in retail banking or an independent financial professional, you [or that person] can enhance your [their] performance by simple NLP tricks. Here they are:   Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and Being Direct vs. Being Rude

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 07-07-2011

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The case of my friend whose volunteering as a counselor for a charity had recently been halted by her program coordinator for “being too direct with the clients” inspired me to write my view of this topic.  Is being too direct good for your clients – or anyone?   Read the rest of this entry »

Is It a Learning Difficulty or a Matter of Perspective?

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 11-06-2011

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The following case inspired me to share another important point: in some cases it isn’t a learning difficulty, but the [lack of] perspective of the person who appends the learning difficulty label.  Let me demonstrate.  The shortened wording of the enquiry I received follows:  Read the rest of this entry »

NLP, Learning Difficulties, Eye Movements – What’s the Connection?

Filed Under (UnLearning Difficulties With NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 05-06-2011

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Several people with learning difficulties who I worked with clearly confirmed that there definitely is a connection.   So let’s explore it.

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Why Help Never Gets to Those Who Need It Most

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 14-05-2011

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The answer is simple: because two reinforcing feedback loops operate here.  A familiar name for the reinforcing feedback loops is virtuous circles.  As you’ll see below, these two circles operate at the opposite ends of one continuum, thus in this sense one of the feedback loops / circles will be perceived as virtuous and the other as vicious.  But in the sense of reinforcing the action in itself even the vicious circle is virtuous, because it results in more of the same action and therefore reinforces it.  So why does help never get to those who need it most? I’ll explain by demonstrating the principles of the two opposing reinforcing feedback loops on a few examples.

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NLP Chunking for Memorizing & Remembering

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 20-04-2011

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How does NLP help to improve memory performance?  Psychologist George A. Miller carried out experiments on human processing of information and discovered that the maximum amount of bits of information that people could deal with simultaneously was between 5 and 9 or in other words 7 plus / minus 2.  A bit of information is the amount needed to make a decision between two equally likely alternatives.  For example, the result of tossing a coin will produce one bit of information.   Read the rest of this entry »

Watch Your Language Around Young Children

Filed Under (Life Coaching & NLP) by NLP-Life-Coach on 17-04-2011

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Never underestimate…   Read the rest of this entry »